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 This is only my opinion. Have you talked to your husband about how he is making you feel? If you have and he just blows it off like nothing then you should really  evaluate your relationship. Who would want to have sex with there mate if your they don't even get a kiss or show some kind of affection towards them to make them feel wanted. I think communication plays a big factor in a marriage. I have been married 10 years and we have  2 kids and if we did not communicate we really would not be together today. How fair is it for him to get off and have all his sexual needs meet and not yours. That to me is very selfish of him to not think of his wife and her needs to be wanted and loved the way she should be. Him accusing you of cheating how about playing a big guilt trip on you for doing nothing. Maybe on the other hand he is the one who is guilty of cheating. Not saying that he has but you just never know... When he wants to be pleased I would say NO and tell him what you want him to do for you!! If he wants oral alot I would throw 69 out there whats good for the goose is good for the gander. Keep your chin up it can only get better!!!

Wow-that sounds awful!  I really feel for you. Have you talked to him about this?  Does he know that you need more from him? If you haven't had that talk, try it but NOT when you are in bed,  when you two are just hanging out. Don't concentrate on the past or negatives-just describe what you would love your sex life to be like...explicitly.  My guy loves to hear me express my desire for him. 

  

One thing you can do to slow this boy down is play hard to get.  Struggle and wrestle a bit-but laugh and tease him so he knows you are playing. We often play around like that and it is really fun. 

  

I know for me, oral sex can be spectacular but I need foreplay for my mouth first.  If he kisses and bites my mouth and fondles it with his hand, I enjoy a BJ immensely and I know I do it much better.  Maybe if you talk about that with him, he would try it?  It's a win/win because you both enjoy it more.   

  

There are so many things that a couple can do to enjoy physical love. Maybe you could ask him about sharing oral sex more-in a 69 position if you enjoy that? 

I hate oral sex. It is disgusting. One time my boyfriend ejaculated in my mouth even though he promised me he wouldn't. I felt so betrayed and used by hime. It was so disgusting I thought I was gonna throw up. It tastes bad, smells bad, and all I can think about are all of the germs. I never liked it and I know I never will.  

  

Dr Phil was right. I did resent it when he forced me to do that. I was glad to see that I was not alone and glad that Dr Phil said that woman would resent her husband if he forced it. My boyfriend always gave me a "hard" time about this. I'm glad I don't have to listen to him whining about it anymore because we are no longer together. Good thing we found out we're not compatible ahead of time or this would have wound up in divorce court.