I am working on getting him to break this habit... AND I THINK THE WORST PART IS HE DOESN'T REMEMBER IT AT ALL. I mean he tells people we don't have sex. I honestly don't know if he does remember. It may be just a dream to him. It is not a dream to me cuz I am up about an hour after the fact cleaning or doing something else.... **laugh** but it is not emotional to me just a habit... you get usted to it.... kind of like blowing your nose or something like that..... Now practically I could not work right? but he wants the money too..... hmmmmmm It is a trade off right ?
Maybe he won't remember if you "just say no." Rule in our house is: We go to bed together and have a wonderful window of opportunity for great sex we can both enjoy.
If you don't make some changes you'll find yourself happier sleeping alone.
