Quote From: jettavI had absolutely NO desire to live with any one before marriage, I wanted some one who love and respect me for who I am, not for my performance in the bedroom, My hubby and I were meant to be together but we did not have sex before marriage and there are no regrets whatsoever, As far as I am concerned sex and marriage goes hand in hand and it does work for those who want it to, My hubby and I are still in love and very active and will continue as long as our bodies are capable. Again, nothing wrong with being a virgin before marriage and it can work, And it is a wonderful feeling knowing that my hubby and I have one thing that only the other has, and has had and no one else has had the pleasure with my hubby nor are they going to for we are a fullfilled and happy couple going strong. Good things definetly come to those who wait
Just because a couple decides to have sex before marriage or live together doesn't make them bad people. I have noticed that those who are saying they waited until marriage are giving off a self righteous attitude. I think either way, if the two people in the marriage are ok with the situstion, virgins or very experienced, then it works. Don't judge people. I had sex with a boyfriend who I thought I would marry when I was 19. We broke up and then there were a few other encounters. I ended up married to that first boy when I was 26. So I joke that I married the first guy i slept with!! It works for us.
