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October 26, 2005, 3:22 pm PDT
ok...
Quote From: denise2uThe thing with this GAY issue now could be eliminated.......if things like sexual preference were kept where it should.....IN THE BEDROOM. I never told my children or anyone about my sexual desires or actions with my husband. My Daughter, like Angela feel that it's 2005 and OUT it should be. Has cause major problems in our family, as there is my 9 yr old granddaughter involved with this. Had she just kept this relationship with her new GAY gf in prospective, our family would be ok now. But no.........it has to be jammed down our throats and accepted cause it's 2005.....BIG MISTAKE on her part! Your saying this like its a fad that will go away.
I understand where your comming from, and agree to a certain level. I do feel that your sex-life should stay in the bedroom, and any display of affection beyond hugging should stay on your property (car, house, yard,...), but what your saying goes a little far.
It's quite obvious that your in denial of your daughter being a lesbian. I don't think shes trying to throw her sexuality on you as a "Its 2005!" thing. She probably just wants you to understand what she is and be tolerant, if not fully supportave.
You also say " [I never told] anyone about my sexual desires or actions with my husband." But, in truth, you have. Anyone who sees you in public with him can see that your married (if you wear your ring),and that you are both heterosexual and sexually active by the fact that you have children. In the same way, now that your daughter has a girlfriend they're going to go out together. People will notice and see that they are gay.
I'm sure that if the two of you sat down and had a talk about this, you could come to an agreement. I of course realize that thats not as easy as it sounds,but try.
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