Quote From: operaismoiFor the woman who is having difficulty orgasming, I want to tell you about myself. I'm married and have always been increadibly sexual. However, it is difficult for me to orgasm during intercourse. I've worked on it with my husband and occasionally it does happen. I can also occassionally have an orgasm during oral sex. However, we've found that masturbation is the most effective way for me to have an orgasm. Now, we enjoy fourplay and intercourse together. I truly enjoy this but rarely orgasm. Afterward, my husband masturbates me with his hands and a toy. With this stimulation I almost always orgasm and we both feel completely fulfilled and satisfied. It has become our routine and I tell my husband how much I appreciate him loving me enough to do this. Sometimes women really need more stimulation to orgasm, but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy sex or can't be fulfilled. Maybe you can find something that works for you. Of course, putting pressure on yourself won't help either. So, just plan to not even try to orgasm for a week or two and enjoy sex again. Good luck!
This was well versed and well said and I couldn't agree more.
I hope every woman or man that reads this understands it's not about the sex it's about what works for both of you. The more you do to find what works for you the more you will love having sex.
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