Replies to 'I Want to Adopt'

I understand when you say it expensive to adopt a child, I still don’t understand why in this world why do we have to pay so much for when we want to adopt in foreign country. We saw a TV show the other days and all that money don’t even goes to the orphanage its manage by private companies and they buy babies form poor mother in exchange for money because those people are so poor and are forced to sell there children. They are searching for a woman that supposedly is hiding in Hawaii she was scamming peoples and mothers in Asia.

  

 

  

  

 

  

 I think of all the tsunami children left parentless last winter, we here want to adopt, but if we do adopt a child for 35 thousand dollars then we would not be able to raise the child the way we wish. my hubby makes 52 thousand dollars a year and take away the taxes and income taxes we pay in Canada there no much less left  ,I know I'm complaining on a full stomach because we have Medicare here in Canada and me and my hubby have medical, dental.... insurances so 80% of all cost are paid, if we were to loan 35 thousand dollars for a baby we would be in a little bit of a pickle. We have choices we can make, but I think it’s not fair that on this planet other children are orphaned and parentless and we have to be rich to adopt.

  

 

  

 

  

 

  

why can there be whit Canadian or usa embassy around the world organisation everywhere ,why cant they take care of that, they have people there for translation and aren't they there for us when we go in those country? Why cant they have someone who takes care of adoption and why don’t they bring the children here in America? They have plane flying everyday for government  that are more then half empty don’t they have places for a few children, if those plane are for the government why don’t they do a few flights for those children? And those countries if they really want the children to be adopted and don’t want to take care of them why won’t they let the children be adopted? (That one I think I know; it’s because for every head the country holds they can have a bigger country loan) so this is all about money.

  

 

  

  

 

  

If I were rich I would go there and have my own people, I would hire from theses country, have my own orphanages to take care of those children until they are ready to leave for papers and medical work. And I would bring the children to America or were ever country. A lots of air line charge free for children less than 2 years of age.

  

 

  

I would bring more then one child and give them to be adopted by people that social services judge fit.

  

 

  

It is supposed to be this way,

  

 

  

  

 

  

 I don’t get that it cost 100 time less to visit these country and stay for 2 week there, for less then 35 thousand dollars.

  

 

  

  

 

  

I don’t get why medical examination don’t cost a lot less too but we still have to pay 35000$

  

 

  

I don’t get why we have to give thousand of dollars in donation and that these place are not so much well kept if you calculate the amount of adoption in one year and the total $$$ of donation they paid well over the expanse for caring for a child. Because those children don’t stay there for many years they are adopted.

  

 

  

  

 

  

I don’t care what origins a child is as long as it’s healthy and you can live a normal live that's all I'm asking.

  

 

  

  

 

  

I have a Vietnamese friend that was adopted trough international fostering in Canada it cost her adoptive parent nothing to have her it was the government that took care of it. she was on an island in Indonesia for 1 year in waiting to have a foster home, she is one the children that we heard that was put in boats for days on a secret island, she tried to get info for me to get a child like she got here but we cant find nothing similar. For her she was adopted a few years after she was here. Her mother his in Canada too and her sibling too.