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Overall I enjoyed the show, but I was a little disappointed with one aspect of the way the show handled giving oral pleasure to one's boyfriend, spouse, etc.  It seemed that Ms. Cattrall, with her 

snappy reference to the Samantha line, "That is why they call it a job!," as well as the overall response of the audience, indicated that any woman who actually likes providing oral pleasure must be a little crazy, or at least a little abnormal. 

Maybe that is true, I don't know.  I don't feel particularly crazy, but I have often been seen as being some distance away from normal!  Anyway, just an informal mental survey of my friends indicates that perhaps more of us actually do enjoy giving our men our pleasure in that way than the show seemed to very indirectly indicate.  I know, however, a great many others whose attitudes seem to be more well reflected by the show. 

It does seem to me, too, from the various reports one sees peridocally on teen sexuality, that perhaps the younger generations of women in our country are developing a markedly different attitude  towards giving oral  pleasure.  It is clear, from seeing the reports, that apparantly younger women do engage in it more often than older; and, it seems likely, may actually get such an enjoyment out of it that they would not really want to call it a job. 

Perhaps one of the reasons that there are so many of us who are a little older who either find the activity disgusting or who find it at best tolerable is that we just have not been able to open ourselves up the fullest range of our sensuality, let alone our sexuality.  I know that has been a rather long process for me, as it seems to have been for others on the show. 

I guess the great thing is is that we can always start to open up more fully to it.