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October 26, 2005, 5:13 pm PDT
10/26 More Sex With Kim Cattrall!
Quote From: jenny_38xPerformance anxiety, as the show suggested, I think is part of what may hold some of us back.
I have learned to establish fairly quickly, once a relationship has moved to the point where my giving oral pleasure is a possibility, that I am not interested in having any ejaculate in my mouth.
That has zero appeal to me, although I do understand that some women actually enjoy that as well.
I think the more one does any sexual activity and one begins building a wonderful backlog of positive memories to associate with it, as well as skill (since, however pleasurable, engaging in erotic activity is still something one may develop skills in) in doing it, becoming more effective in,
providing one's self with more pleasure while at the same time giving greater pleasure to one's man, one will naturally start liking it more and more.
I think too one has to be very open with their sexuality and be willing to explore and try new things. The more exciting the actual act is the more excited you both are and might be willing to try something you normally wouldn't do. Although while I bring this exploration thing but I have a quick question as well does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can help my husband understand that sex toys can be fun and bring a lot of pleasure and and excitement into a relationship. I think he thinks he isn't doing the job right if we need sex toys.
Any suggestions??
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