Quote From: freebirdIt either makes us run or fight. Natural instincts. If it's a choice of moving forward and facing the problem head-on or continuing to be stuck in a rut, which would you choose? What is it that is stopping you from doing what you have to do to get out of the rut? If you can figure that out, you're halfway there. Unfortunately nobody can fix these problems for us, we have to do it for ourselves. I'm sure we would all like to have a white knight to ride in and fix our problems, but how would we ever cope with the little problems if we never had the courage to sort them out for ourselves? You will find your courage and make your decision. After all, that is what we do everyday in one way or another. Best of luck.
without the aid of a white knight...Is that just total fantasy? What is stopping me is money...and internal loyalty and some days its good and some days its not and dealing with someone else's mess when I have worked so very hard cleaning up my own.
I am sure you will not understand this next part but on a daily basis I have to bring my mentality down to a minimal level to interact. I stopped reading books 3 years ago.. Once I unlocked this negative habit with Dr. Phil's LIFE STRATEGIES this summer I am now on my 3rd since then..
This is not Little problem either it is quite complex with anger and years towards my oldest daughter whom now does not live with us she lives with my sister, my loyalty's are extended to my sweet daughter as well..don't get me wrong...My original dysfunctional family and there "web' of lies and now after seeing Dr. Phil's book I am capable of seeing it into the family I married into...How my husband has fear from his family how he doesn't want to "rock" tthe boat....How he promised to read Dr. Phil's book and shrugged it off..
Thanks for your luck but I NEED THE LORD!
Its very much more complex not that I am special with special problems...Just seems difficult to me...
