Quote From: nataliea86 Hi everyone,
Okay sorry to ask this question.....
My fiance and I have been living together for two years now and we still have a good sex life. Execpt no foreplay, and worst of all....... there is absolutely no "pleasuring me" at all!! I'm sure you all know what I mean, but why won't he give me oral sex?!? I have very good hygene, So what is the problem?
He used to do it a lot, but only when we FIRST started dating. In the past 16 months I have recieved a total of 2 times...and the amount of time for both, 15 seconds! And I have counted!
I am just fine with pleasuring him orally.. I have no problem with it and I try to do it all the time just out of wanted to please him (not because I think it is fun or anything). I was under the impression that "the more you give, the more you get". But it has not worked for me!
Does anyone have any advice for me? Is this normal or is it just me?? I feel like there is something that is gross about me now, that's why he won't do it..... but what could it be?
Sorry about the graphic message, but I'm just so bothered by this!! :)
Thanks,
Nat
Have you talked to him about this issue? Apparently there is an issue with it otherwise he would do it, if he use to. Maybe you can guide him down there when you are in the act of something sexual. Play phone sex or text him during the day and then somewhere in the middle say ... I have been craving you going down there and can't wait for that tonight! See what he says, if he ignores it.....there is something really wrong. He may not like it and only did it for your sake earlier. But find out, it cant hurt to discuss it. Ask him how he would feel if you didn't do the same for him.
SORRY, this sucks!
