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August 17, 2005, 7:24 am PDT

Did you use Self Matters to help you?

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 I was cleaning out my bookshelves this past weekend and found this. It used to hang on my refrigerator and I would read it before I opened the door. Hope somebody finds it as helpful as I did.
 
I overate for happiness - and became unhappy.
I overate for joy - and became miserable.
I overate to be outgoing - and became self-centered.
I overate to be sociable - and became argumentative and lonely.
I overate for friendship - and made enemies.
I overate to soften sorrow - and awakened without rest.

I overate for strength - and felt weak.
I overate for relaxation - and became more tense.
I overate for assurance - and became doubtful.
I overate for warmth - and lost my cool.
I overate to feel Heavenly - and found Hell.
I overate to forget - and became haunted by my excess fat.
I overate for freedom - and became a slave to food.

I overate for power - and became powerless.
I overate to erase problems - and saw them multiply.
I overate to cope with life - and invited an earlier death.

I overate because I had the RIGHT - and everything turned out wrong.

So I made it a rule, I don't eat unless I'm truly hungry!

Hi Ritehere, 

  

I was wondering about the path you took to lose weight.  For me, I started with a tool I knew would help me - a food log.  In fact, I knew it because every time I had lost wt before, it was a major reason it happened.  It had to undergo quite a bit of change because I pulled it into my program early on without ever reading the Weight Loss Solutions.  But when I added a "journal" part to it, I saw that the life events in my life were out of control and losing weight wasn't going to happen for quite a long time. 

  

I turned to Self Matters to help me with my thinking and been doing Self Matters for quite a long time now.  I've finally just bought closure to my very last "thing" that makes me eat out of control -- my mom.  I had to tackled all my other friends & family before her - but it's over and done with. 

  

Did it happen to you that way too?  I know that 1 woman lost weight and never used Weight Loss Solutions - she did it using the tools & techniques in Self Matters. 

  

What was your path to weight loss? 

 
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August 17, 2005, 7:26 am PDT

Thanks for the words

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 I was cleaning out my bookshelves this past weekend and found this. It used to hang on my refrigerator and I would read it before I opened the door. Hope somebody finds it as helpful as I did.
 
I overate for happiness - and became unhappy.
I overate for joy - and became miserable.
I overate to be outgoing - and became self-centered.
I overate to be sociable - and became argumentative and lonely.
I overate for friendship - and made enemies.
I overate to soften sorrow - and awakened without rest.

I overate for strength - and felt weak.
I overate for relaxation - and became more tense.
I overate for assurance - and became doubtful.
I overate for warmth - and lost my cool.
I overate to feel Heavenly - and found Hell.
I overate to forget - and became haunted by my excess fat.
I overate for freedom - and became a slave to food.

I overate for power - and became powerless.
I overate to erase problems - and saw them multiply.
I overate to cope with life - and invited an earlier death.

I overate because I had the RIGHT - and everything turned out wrong.

So I made it a rule, I don't eat unless I'm truly hungry!

I'm going to share these words with my WLC support group.  We are going to start up again this September and we all have been tackling our life events slowly but we are making headway! 

  

  

 
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November 28, 2006, 3:39 pm PST

This is so true, Do you know me????

Quote From: ritehere

 I was cleaning out my bookshelves this past weekend and found this. It used to hang on my refrigerator and I would read it before I opened the door. Hope somebody finds it as helpful as I did.
 
I overate for happiness - and became unhappy.
I overate for joy - and became miserable.
I overate to be outgoing - and became self-centered.
I overate to be sociable - and became argumentative and lonely.
I overate for friendship - and made enemies.
I overate to soften sorrow - and awakened without rest.

I overate for strength - and felt weak.
I overate for relaxation - and became more tense.
I overate for assurance - and became doubtful.
I overate for warmth - and lost my cool.
I overate to feel Heavenly - and found Hell.
I overate to forget - and became haunted by my excess fat.
I overate for freedom - and became a slave to food.

I overate for power - and became powerless.
I overate to erase problems - and saw them multiply.
I overate to cope with life - and invited an earlier death.

I overate because I had the RIGHT - and everything turned out wrong.

So I made it a rule, I don't eat unless I'm truly hungry!

My gosh this hits every nail on the head.  I did not know just how much over eating was a habit.  I came home from the hospital in 1999, I had a Gastric Bypass and was not feeling too good.  But, While watching TV is never noticed how good food looked, and I was Hungry!  Why??  My stomache was shrunk down to nothing at that time.  I stopped and thought, wow the mind is a powerful toy...(tool)  and it truly had me under a spell, or bad habbit.   you have probly listed everyone and any I might think of?    Now I have gained 50 # this year and my asthma and depression are taking over AGAIN

 Thank you!!

 


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