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Quote From: willy07

My husband told me once when I asked him to do a certain sexual position that "he didn't like doing that........it was like a entering "black void"!!  Well, didn't that make me feel special?  It didn't matter that for me that was the position where I had the most feeling.........it's always about him.  When he wants it, how he wants it, etc. etc.  I am almost 10 years older than he is and I try very hard to always look great, wear attractive clothing, keep my hair cut and coloured, etc. etc.  And, do you know what he does??  He strikes up conversations and relationships with other women, arranges meetings for tea at the local donut shop - which I might add, I interrupted and told him that if he wanted to continue acting this way, he could do it as an unmarried man!!  He had a "breakdown" a week later complete with tears and some semblance of remorse, and told me that he would rather work on what was wrong with our relationship than throw it all away.  Three weeks later I found out that he is still calling and emailing the other woman, even as we were attending counselling!!  How is that supposed to work?  Right now, I am so angry at him, but the "poor baby" is sick with pneumonia and I don't have the heart to tell him that I called the other woman and she said that it was him calling her and not her calling him like he told me!!  We have our next meeting with the psychologist on Tuesday night - think I will let him know then that he is a liar!