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March 28, 2006, 8:44 am PST
Foster Parenting
Quote From: molly15As a foster parent you will be come very upset with the system. The system is there to unite the parent or parents with the child. That is their main goal. They will bend over backwards to do this. They will exhaust all the avenues out there to get to his goal. When it is very clear to the caseworker that getting the family back together is not going to work. That is when the rights are terminated. Have you home study done and get it updated so you are all set to go to start the adoption process. Our cass work keeps telling us there is no way the mother is getting her children back { there is 5 of them, we have 1 of them,} It has been 14 mon now and the state still haven't done anything. She is still getting 1 hour a week with two worker keeping an eye on the visitation. How long do these children have to wait tll they can have a loving,happy home. We want to take two of the children, right now we just have 1. So what, the state is going to push the kids from home to home, from mom to home, till they are so messed up that no one will want them. or they are of age to start having children, {because they are looking for love the wrong way} witch the new children well go right back in to the mess. { like two of the children , in this cass}, so what is right and what is a answer?
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