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December 1, 2005, 11:46 am PST

Principal Bullies

Quote From: onthefarm

Principals can be the worst of workplace bullies because often no one knows what they are doing other than the people they are doing it to--who have to go through a grievance committee and follow the chain of command and otherwise put themselves way out there to voice any disention....then end up being black-balled and not able to get a job teaching anywhere. My building principal is new and not sure of himself, so he makes his way easier by trying to shut down every older, more experienced person on the staff. He writes us up for crazy things like "negative attitude" when we question some new thing he wants to do, and turns the newer staff members against us by telling them that we have old-fashioned, stagnant ideas. The superintendent isn't about to NOT defend his principal, the other teachers aren't going to risk their jobs to stand behind you, and the school board's only input will come from the superintendent...so basically you're screwed. If you're old, you earn too much for any other district to want to hire you, so you're pretty much stuck where you are for as long as you can stand being treated like a useless, brainless, hasbeen. I've been in the education business nearly 4 times as long as this principal has been, and all of my years were in elementary--while only this past year as principal has he been in an elementary school. He doesn't understand the psychology of the elementary school child, the curriculum necessities and demands. He wants to run it like a secondary school---and anything said to the contrary about how it might have a negative effect on the students--is worthy of a massive put-down and the old teacher is lableled as "having taught too many years from her laminated lesson plans"...ARGHGHGHGH! I wish there was a way that older teachers could be respected and that new principals would have to have served in the classroom for at least a few years at the level the principal is overseeing. OK I vented. Feel better. But why is it that we allow our older, more knowledgeable, more experienced people so little respect in favor of a young one who just finished 3 years undergrad and 2 years graduate school and served 2 years as a SR high coach? THis happens over and over and over....and it was just not ever right....and now it's happening to me, too!

  

You have to remember that these youngs folks are "wet behind the ears."  I am a teacher as well and I take a much different attitude with the teachers that have a lot of experience.  I speak to them often and ask for advice.   Generally, principals do not ask for help from teachers.  In my experience, it's quite the opposite most of the time.  As for running the school, have your principal show you the research on what he's trying to change.  I have noticed that my principal doesn't do her homework.  He's making a choice to not listen to his teachers/staff.  He would rather put you down than deal with the issue. 

  

In my district, we have a strong union that helps us with this type of issue.  That is certainly worth a try.  Also, don't sell yourself short.  If you think that you can't deal with this person, then you won't.  If you want the principal to listen, then make him listen!  You can talk with him, leave him a note, write a letter to the editor of a local newspaper etc.  New ideas are not always better ideas. 

  

I'm sure your lesson plans are not laminated...who would spend the time on that anyway?  We have more important things to do like grade papers!!!  Don't spend time thinking about how other people label you.  What you think of yourself is much more important. 

  

I have had a similiar experience with my principal.  She is up to no good most of the time.  She likes to spend time going through my personal items after school hours and she takes what she likes.  If I confront her, she always blames someone else.  I have learned...the hard way...to lock up my personal belongingings every day.  She has a way of making office referrals disappear.  If I ask about it, then she pleads ignorance.  She is completely irresponsible.  Our school calendar is a complete mess.  She is unable to set a date and keep it.  Our staff meetings are rescheduled three or four times.  If I ask about it, she blames someone else.  Interestingly, my principal has in 30 years now.   

  

I have learned to not take my job so seriously and to laugh off a lot of things.  I cannot change my principal, but I can change the way I respond to things that happen at work.  So can you! 

 


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