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November 20, 2005, 4:15 pm PST
Difficulty Forming Friendships
Quote From: newcomer
I moved to North Carolina from New York about 7 months ago.In New York I didn't really have friends so I couldn't wait to move somewhere new so maybe I would meet people.Well I did but they didn't turn out to as good of friends as I thought.I was so excited to actually have someone I could call my friend.I have a hard time talking to people I don't know.To make it worse, my husband is mister sociable.I guess thats good because without him I wouldn't probably talk to anyone besides my children.I have two.They are 8 and 2.At least this way I get somewhat friendly with their girlfriends or wives. I would love to talk to someone besides my 2 year old during the day.I am a good person and always think about people so I really don't know what the problem is.As I am writing this I can't help but cry because it is really bothering me.I am soo bored.It feels good though to get this off my mind.Sometimes writing something helps.If you have time and you can relate write me back.Thanks Moving didnt help me either, I have just the opposite.Grown family and all the other neighbors have children so they know each other thru school. I have tried to start friendly conversations, but people look at me like I'm crazy. I am kind and caring. but that does not seem to matter. I have invited people to get to know me thru a lunch or get together, but theres always a excuse. I am tired of being friendless. Never a phone call. no one cares. I am not on the "pity pot" just sad I have to be alone, when I would love to share a movie, lunch, ride in the country etc. with a friend. What gives with this world anyway?
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