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Quote From: gaktstoner

last night we had a counseling session with the court appointed guy.  he called my h in and talked to him alone for 45 minutes then talked to the two children together for about 8 minutes.  we left there and went straight to my daughters cheer practice.  my h was agitated and he was most unhappy when i asked him to take our son home that i would stay with our d.  he phoned me and asked to speak to our d.  i said i can't interupt her cheer practice so he asked me what she wouldllike from micky ds since i didn't go grocery shopping.  i said there was only 42 dollars int he checking i could not go food shopping.  an hour later when cheer was over and my d and i got home, she started to cry bc her food was cold (she is 10). i tried to calm her down and my h started saying that she was a ridiculous fool and so was i.  she started to cry more and screamed that her dad hates her.  he said if she wants to play mind games, so bei it. if she thinks he hates her well then that's how she feels and he can't do anything about it.  i then stepped in and said to him that he was abusing her and i won't let her hear anymore of it and that he was abusing our son bc he was witnessing it.  i told the kids to get in the car and we left.  i went to mickey ds and called d.v.  they wanted to put us in a shelter for the night.  i called him and said i called dv and don't need to put the kids in that siutation at home, is it safe or do i need a police escort to take us home to get some stuff.  he daid he didn't do anything wrong and didn't abuse his d and i had no reason not to feel safe.  anywho, we went home and the kids slpe with me, they were still upset & frightened.  today i called my therapist and left two messages with the therapist we saw last night and my lawyer won't be in until after 1:30.  i am very upset and frightened.  i don't know what to do................thanks, gak :(