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August 2, 2005, 10:25 am PDT

kepeping daughter safe

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hi there i think you should call the authorities.that can be considered harrassment or stalking also.If you have her phone and see that they harass her yet well you have proof.let their parents deal with that then if they think it will blow over.I hate that attitude some parents have that their kid can do no wrong.My daughter to will be going into grade 10 and is fifteen also.i have posted her story here on the board probably back near the back page somewhere if you are interested in reading it.keep posting you will get support here i hope its a new board and not alot of posts yet,but there will be.take care and god keep your daughter safe.cathykids dancing

 

   I would report it to the police.keep every text and phone call and keep the caller id.keep everthing these girls have sent and done letters everything.go to the plice and report it.emails everything press charges on them.get a restraining order to.Then take the school and the partents to court.sur for money for the parents not doing thier job.Make sure the school and the parents know you mean busness. sometimes it is the only way.You may think about moving her to anther school.I don't have a perfect answer.I have my battles with bullies and the schools here.I can only hope whave I have done for my son is the answer.

 
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August 3, 2005, 10:16 pm PDT

I'm a teen myself . . .

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hi there i think you should call the authorities.that can be considered harrassment or stalking also.If you have her phone and see that they harass her yet well you have proof.let their parents deal with that then if they think it will blow over.I hate that attitude some parents have that their kid can do no wrong.My daughter to will be going into grade 10 and is fifteen also.i have posted her story here on the board probably back near the back page somewhere if you are interested in reading it.keep posting you will get support here i hope its a new board and not alot of posts yet,but there will be.take care and god keep your daughter safe.cathykids dancing

Hello.

I am 16 years old, and I am not going into grade 12. In the 8th grade, I was tormented, all the time. It really hurt. And, I hated going to school. I had 3 friends, who turned on me too. I seen them one time, 2 yrs ago, during the summer, and they started calling me all these rude names, and I didn't understand why, they were doing it. Then another girl, turned on me. she threatened to beat me up one time. She called my house, constantely. Then my mom finally blocked her number, and she still hates me. The reason why she turned on me, is because supposedly I kept calling her house, then hanging up, all the time, and I didn't. I tried telling her that but she didnt believe me, I believe that the next time she sees me, she will try something, but I will get her back. I think you should call the police, and have them talk to those girls, and you can get a restraining order, because if the police talk to them, that may not do anything, but if you get a restraining order on them, then she wouldn't have to change schools, and she can still be in that dance class. Or, if your daughter is still scared, I think that maybe you should change her schools. Then, she could make new friends. You can also block those girls' phone numbers from your phone. Girls can be very harsh. I think girls are worse than boys. And, since those girls keep calling your daughter, they can be charged for harassment and stalking, because they keep calling your daughter, and you also have proof that they keep tourmenting her. I think that you should go to the police, just to be on the safe side. Because, you never know. Your daughter can be in the bathroom, and one of those girls, could walk in and see her or something. I think that you should call the police, and get a restraining order. I think a restraining order would be necessary because if the police talk to them, it may or not stop them. tell your daughter to take care, I hope I offered you some advice. Good Luck to you, and your daughter.

PS. the parents of those girls are probably thinking "girls will be girls" but it's much deeper than that.

 


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