Replies to 'Afraid to Ask for What You Want Sexually?'

 
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November 10, 2005, 1:41 pm PST

Don't settle!

Quote From: elizabetha

Hello im a 36female in a commited relationship for 5yrs and sex is far and few between.  Our sex life has never been all that but it is lots worse now.  I love him dearly and know he is faithfull but he just isnt all that interested.  Leaves me very lonely and always wondering if its something about me even knowing its not.  I do love him dearly and want to spend the rest of my life with him and plan too even with this sad sitution.  Just hoping for that awsome event to take place. 

What about going to a marriage counselor to explore this issue?  Are there any other areas in your relationship that you think need improvement? There may be something unsaid from the past for reasons as to why your sex life isn't "normal."  I know that my relationship with my boyfriend of 5 years is also suffering in that area.  We are in counseling and a lot of other things are surfacing.  Would that be an option you and he would consider?
 


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