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November 7, 2005, 3:37 pm PST

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 I have a feeling that these next couple of days are going to busy....replying to messages and just reading all of them that people post.  My name is Katie and my huband, Barry, and I are the yellow team.  Just to respond to this quote: when I got pregnant with another man's child, Barry and I had only been seeing each other a few months and he was actually living five states away snowboarding for the winter.  I was very very young and in college at the time and got pregnant from a one night stand.  I told Barry about it and it was HIS choice to stay.  Please please please PLEASE readers, remember that what you see on TV has been edited over and over again and you are never getting the 100% whole story. 
Thanks for identifying yourself on the board, Katie.   Unlike the other couples, at least you and Barry seemed to have a clue as to what you were fighting about!   Brad indicated that "Katie pressured me to marry her. She uses the kids against me, threatens with divorce."  I take it then that you and Barry also have at least one other child besides the child from the one night stand?  How many kids do the two of you have altogether?
 
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November 7, 2005, 3:43 pm PST

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Quote From: katie_lea

 I have a feeling that these next couple of days are going to busy....replying to messages and just reading all of them that people post.  My name is Katie and my huband, Barry, and I are the yellow team.  Just to respond to this quote: when I got pregnant with another man's child, Barry and I had only been seeing each other a few months and he was actually living five states away snowboarding for the winter.  I was very very young and in college at the time and got pregnant from a one night stand.  I told Barry about it and it was HIS choice to stay.  Please please please PLEASE readers, remember that what you see on TV has been edited over and over again and you are never getting the 100% whole story. 

I don't think you have to defend yourself to anybody else.  If it was HIS choice to stay...than he decided he loves you that much is suppose to be willing to work through the hurt.  I ALWAYs keep in mind about the editing and everything---I think that even when you think you know a couple personally for years, you just never know...so why judge after an hour of TV exposure?  Sure , you only paint the picture that your attitudes show, but nobodys perfect and as long as really try and both of you want it, then you'll make it.  My husband and I have been married almost 2 years and we have our days too, everyone does.  Good luck to you and your husband and remember that not all of us are to naive to know we can never know enough until we're there and not all of us judge.  GOOD LUCK! 

 
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November 7, 2005, 3:57 pm PST

11/07 Dr. Phil's Road Show: Newlywed Challenge

Quote From: katie_lea

 I have a feeling that these next couple of days are going to busy....replying to messages and just reading all of them that people post.  My name is Katie and my huband, Barry, and I are the yellow team.  Just to respond to this quote: when I got pregnant with another man's child, Barry and I had only been seeing each other a few months and he was actually living five states away snowboarding for the winter.  I was very very young and in college at the time and got pregnant from a one night stand.  I told Barry about it and it was HIS choice to stay.  Please please please PLEASE readers, remember that what you see on TV has been edited over and over again and you are never getting the 100% whole story. 
Well I give you all credit for being on there.  You do help alot of people.  I do not have a perfect life, so don't get me wrong.  I think my reaction was an initial shock to the situation.  I don't like the name calling thing and am not a big name caller.  Although I have lived with one who is.  I think some people like to live that way.  Like all of you are saying you love each other.  To me that is not love.... Love is words like honey, sweetheart... babe... etc.  Those are love words......  whatever....
 


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