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March 14, 2006, 12:52 pm PST
I understand
Quote From: katrinI don't know why people continue to stay married if all they are going to do is cheat. What is the point??? Numerous affairs... would do again if wouldn't get caught... I just don't get it. What happened to the vows these people took. I am so sick of it. This is one of the things that make me not want to get married!!! It seems like more than not, in married couples, one of the two are being unfaithful. Does anyone care about people other than themselves??? I am tired of it. I could never imagine being with anyone other than my boyfriend, but I can tell you one thing... If he ever cheated, even kissed another woman, I would be gone faster than he could say he was sorry. I am worth more than that. He knows it, but that's the thing... No one tells anyone, it's a big society secret among all. Everyone has everyone's back. I can honestly tell you that out of all the couples I know and there are a lot... Only 2 couples have been 100% faithful (that I know of). It makes me sick to my stomach. One of the couples I know... the husband is married to his best friends sister... They both have cheated on their wives... but what gets me is that it's his SISTER'S husband he is doing this with. They go out, find other women, have sex, and go home to their wives. It's sad when you have even more loyalty to your friends rather than your family. Needles to say, we don't hang out with those couples anymore... I can't look at those women and know what I know and have them not believe me when I tell them what I know about their husbands. What has happened to the sacred marriage, and the vows people take??? That's what I want to know. I feel your frustration. What does it mean when people say "I'm committed to you"? So what? They're committed until something better comes along?? One affair and I would be out of there. On the other hand I talk to woman everyday who are just like "well maybe he'll change". I just look at them and think why why why would you put up with this? I think cheating is pandemic in this country because of women (people) like this. I think women need to stand up and say "hey, we are not going to put up with this anymore". Any relationship worth having has to have mutual respect for the other person. If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to me. And who are these women that will sleep with someone else's husband? They have no shame. They certainly wouldn't want that if they were in a relationship but their willing to do it to another women. I believe these women are the enemy. They have no self worth, they are selfish and they have the morals of alley cats. I see the men as well, you're right, they go sleep with other women and then go home and sleep with their partners. If their partner did the same thing they would probably flip out but yet they don't have a problem with it. There's nothing sacred about committment anymore, or so it seems. Hang in there with your boyfriend and congratulations on taking a stance and having expectations of your partner. I feel the same.
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