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I was so happy to see your message.  I am in the same shoes as you. I too have racked up huge amounts of credit card debt and kept it from my husband out of fear.  No one understands this and I feel completely isolated.  I finally broke down and told my husband back in October.  Our marriage has been rocky ever since.  He has lost all trust in me.  He fills deceived and betrayed.  I look at him and can't imagine how I could possibly have done this to the man I love.  I wish I had some great advice for you, some wise words to help you through, but I don't.  I hope it helps on some level to know that you are not alone, someone else understands where you are.  I don't know where this will lead us, but the bottom line is enough is enough and whatever wounds we have to heal to get rid of this addiction, we must do.  I wish you all the luck in the world.  Sending courage and strength to you.