Quote From: indiana77Honey it's plain to see from the outside he is cheating on you. the reason could be any; not enough spark, hates himself , bored, your "different", his family history,(maybe his parents did this),or he could just be a creep. But he is just shuting down too fast. To me it seams he has found or has a definite possibility of another realationship. In my past i have dealt with this several times. I could talk to you about it e-mail me @ romanangel77@yahoo.com. we can talk.But bottom line if he's not ready to stop the crash the train WILL derail no matter what you do. He needs to be apart of fixing it.
Call several local lawyers. Ask their cost for a divorce with a child in your county. You need to move on, get child support, and get maintenance (alimony) until you are able to be re-trained for your new position. YOu all ready have training as a childcare worker (you have a small child right?); child development teacher; accounting professional (you did the checkbook and family budget, right?); housekeeper; sex therapist (you worked with a lost cause, right?).... Anyway; there are lawyers to fit every budget, and some that will make HIM pay all legal fees since you weren't working when he decided to desert you and the baby.......... make him pay.
Take your advise from someone who is NOT emotionally involved, too!!!
