Replies to '03/13 Infidelity Aftermath'

Thank you for your reply   I think maybe you are right.  Iknow that this is about me and my husband and our marriage, and I feel that I should not let her have the satisfaction of being included in my struggle to make my marrige work.  However it is tormenting me that I know he lied to me about things that happened in their relationship, like the fact that it was ending anyway when for the last month before I found out the text and phone messages increased  He says that is because they were ending it and talking things thru Very hard for me to believe  Then I think to myself he was a lying cheating so and so anyway so why do I expect him to tell the truth now!!!!  he is trying very hard but everytime he goes out I want to follow him and see if he is meeting her  Will the pain ever end I ask myself? Please God things will get easier.