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August 4, 2008, 12:31 am PDT

I understand

Quote From: aba1969

Thank you for the response.  My only concern is for my daughter's well being.  I did not want her being exposed to a variety of girlfriends that when the other does not work he'll introduce her to another.  I reacted before when he said he was not even sure if it was going to work out with her since he already let them spent time together for the first couple of days they started seeing each other.  I know his lovelife should not be any of my concern as he was the one who have asked me if I have found anybody or going to moved in with anyone.  I was not controlling him, I don't even response to his personal comment regarding his relationship with this girl.  There was one time he drove to my new place to drop our daughter to me and she came with them but did not see me that's why I asked him to introduce me to her but did not do it, and again today the girlfriend just decided to go to his place in the morning just to drive them to my place to drop my daughter off and not use my ex's car.  I mean, what is this?  I feel like he is trying to use our daughter to get back at me.  I hope I am really wrong.  I feel like he does not want me to be happy. 

I can understand why you have such a problem with your him exposing your daughter to all of those different women. If he was a real man, first of all he wouldn't be going from woman to woman like that in front of your daughter.  If he really loved his daughter more than he loved hisself, the way it's suppose to be when you have a child, he wouldn't be exposing your child to so many women.  So, yes you have a right to be upset.  Sounds like a very selfish man to me. Sounds like his putting his needs ahead of his childs. Because all he's doing is teaching her, about how it's o.k. to go from one person to another. He should not be bringing a woman around his daughter, until he knows it's serious, like a engagement. It's wrong for a woman to bring so many men around her kids, and it's wrong for a man to bring so many women around his kid. Doesn't he think that the child is going through enough, all it's doing is confusing her.

 

Don't let him steal your power from you, take your power back. Don't let him see you without your hair done, your make-up done and etc. Don't let him talk to you about his relationships when he knows all it does is hurt you,  spare yourself the pain!!!!!    He wants you to be miserable, take your power back. If you need to cry or hollar, do it after he's gone, don't do it in front of him that's what he wants.  You are a strong woman, you can do anything that you put your mind to. Your most important role is your daughter, and what she sees in her mother. Show her the mother that is strong, powerful, loving, caring, beautiful, wise, woman.  YOU  ARE WOMAN, DON'T LET A MAN BREAK YOU DOWN SO MUCH THAT YOU STOP BELIEVEING IN YOURSELF, NO MATTER WHAT,   ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR DAUGHTER'S EYES ARE ALWAYS WATCHING YOU NO MATTER HER AGE.  LET HER BE YOUR INSPIRATION!!!!    GOD BLESS YOU, PRAY HE WILL HELP YOU WITH THIS, JUST BELIEVE. 

 


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