Quote From: aandcsmomIf you were talking in response to me. Thanks. I have started putting money aside. Right now I don't have enough nor am I in a position to go. We are talking of moving again, this time to the midwest (job related) which would make it less expensive for me to live and be closer to my family (still several hundred miles, but not over a thousand anymore). I figure if things don't change soon, I'm going to have to get out, but I do need to be prepared. I'm beginning to get things going to start doing that, but it is a slow process. I know my husband loves me, of that I have no doubt, it's just that I also know he doesn't understand love and respect as it should be. His mother cheated on his father (who divorced her), but he (my husband) obviously didn't learn anything from it. All I can ask for is prayers that I can turn his life around (I've made a lot of progress on other fronts with him) and get him to realize how much he hurts me and how much he will be hurting the children as they get older if he doesn't change.
I was and you're welcome.
Do not touch your saved money for anything in this world and definitely not for this next move. That money is your lifeline. Continue to save, no excuses.
You can not change him. Don't kill the messenger. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE ANOTHER WOMAN'S CHILD, HIS FOUNDATION IS SET.
Whatever! Believe what you want. Continue to save save save for the sake of your children.
