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November 10, 2005, 3:22 pm PST
11/10 Infidelity Aftermath
Quote From: rhondayes
I was and you're welcome.
Do not touch your saved money for anything in this world and definitely not for this next move. That money is your lifeline. Continue to save, no excuses.
You can not change him. Don't kill the messenger. YOU CAN NOT CHANGE ANOTHER WOMAN'S CHILD, HIS FOUNDATION IS SET.
Whatever! Believe what you want. Continue to save save save for the sake of your children. I know I cannot change what his Mom did. The hard part for me, is that I still love him. No matter how mad I get (and I do) and no matter how much I feel like I hate him at times, I still love him. However, you are right. I have to save and I have to take stock of me. Something I haven't been doing til lately. As I get closer to 40 (only a couple of years), I realize that I can't live the rest of my life like this. I waited til I was 31 before I got married because I wanted it to be the right guy. I knew on our first date he was the one for me. It's just later that things got complicated and confusing. I'm not a proponent of divorce and that's why this is so hard for me. I waited so long because I never wanted to be divorced. Now it's just tough. SO, all I ask is for prayers that things will work out the way they are supposed to. I know God has a plan for me and will make things go His way. Thank you.
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