Replies to 'Infidelity'

You've already run out of stones, and are now trying to turn over grains of sand !

So, you've stopped having sex with him ? Well, YEAH..........just for the sake of not getting an STD

is reason enough ! You say you don't care anymore, so WHY are you still with him ? Is it for your son ?Is it for financial reasons ? Don't get me wrong, these can be very valid reasons given someone's circumstances. However, you need to think about all of the emotional and physycological abuse this man has and is STILL putting you thru. Even a counselor has already told you that you HAVE TO leave him.

Now, he's talking with another woman AND acting weird again ? He's just uncapable of having just one woman and being FAITHFUL. Are you willing to spend your life being cheated on ?

I went thru a very hard time with my h a while ago. Although his problem wasn't other women, but rather booze and drugs. I thought there was another woman becaseu he too would sometimes come home in the AM hours, until I had him investigated. Wen I decided that was enough, I just laid it out to him that he WILL lose his family and EVERYTHING.....if he didn't take advantage of ONE and only ONE chance that I would give him. He knew I was serious as I already was speaking with an atty. That was all it took ( so far) for him to turn his act around. Some men so, some men don't.

It's up to you how much you can live with.