Quote From: kokikai111I know its difficult, but you do have choices. It doesn't sound like your marriage is going to improve on its own. I suggest counseling to help you find out why you accept this treatment and so you can find or create a relationship where you are treated with respect. Talk to your family if they are receptive, maybe you can live closer to them. Better to get out sooner before the children are damaged. Make a phone call tomorrow. Good luck!
I should have had mine followed but by the time I realized the signs they had put and end to it. As soon as you see or feel that something is just not right have him followed and then put him out.
This is bull, why do we have to leave when we did not bring this contention into the home. These people need to be accountable for their own actions. Let them be inconvenienced. Let them have to leave their home. Don't make things easy for them at all. Especially if they are picking fights with you this is a sure sign. They just want you to leave so that they don't have to be the bad guy or have to leave their home.
Have them followed, get an attorney and throw him out on his butt! He was not thinking about what you were going to have to do to go on with your life.
I say if you losers want to cheat then get the courage you cowards, own up to your actions and do the honorable thing and just leave yourself and then you can play the field with the rest of the losers and maybe you might even catch a disease or two that you are probably thinking will never happen to you but you don't mind exposing an Innocent victim in the relationship to your bad decision. We base our decisions on false information and you are taking our power away for us to have an exclusive relationship with a caring committed partner. This is abusive and selfish!!!