Replies to '03/13 Infidelity Aftermath'

We already have children.  I had 2 children from a previous marriage and we now have one together.  His first child. 

Once he realized I had checked his email and saw what he was up to I guess he figured it woud look suspect if he changed his password so he hasn't.  But I still go in there from time to time it's what I realize is that if he gets an email from one of these friends, he replies to it and deletes any evidence of it immediately.  Or he's calling them on his breaks at work.  It's really frustrating.  I don't know that I believe he's sleeping with them because none of them live in our town or state for that matter.  But I've read in his emails where he made plans to meet them when they come to town or nearby.  The fact that he will make these plans and not inform me bothers me. 

Then he lies about the nature of the relationships with certain ppl.  He described one person as being his "best friend".  At first I believed it.  She lived 2 doors down with her husband and thought it was innocent although suspicious because she lived 2 doors down and she never came to our home nor did we go to hers.  They work together and we went to a Xmas party at their job once and we were seated with her and her husband.  He told me they were just friends.  Her husband's expression told a very different story.  I watched his expression each time my husband said something and he looked like he wanted to kill him.  Clearly there was more going on here.  Then one day I was on the computer and discovered a picture of him and her.  A pic taken at a photo studio.  Not the kind of pic or pose "friends" take.  This was a "we are a couple pic".  I confronted him about it and he lied again.  It's funny; I can always tell when he's lying or told a lie because he tries to atone for it via an expensive gift.  Very transparent. 

I really wonder if he thinks our marriage will last with this kind of BS between us. *smh*