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November 10, 2005, 9:02 pm PST

WONDING!!

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You could follow him to the "store" or like the other post said, call the number and see who answers. If he's intentionally doing odd things to get a rise out of you then he doesn't have your best interest at heart, it's a very passive/aggressive thing to do.  My ex husband use to get off work at 11 pm but not get home until 2 or 3 am, his excuse was always that he was talking to a male buddy of his. Come to find out, he was with the buddy but not just talking, if you get my meaning. He cheated with both men and women during our marriage. When I divorced him I felt like a million bucks, he was and is a loser! So, if you have doubts about your man do a little investigating yourself, unfortunately you'll probably find exactly what your worried about. Be safe and stay strong!

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Dont forget the cell number bills , carrying  all of the number called along with how many minutes used, if the bill are sent home, you have it made too check up on him. also a computer programer should have too much contact with a  cafeteria worker. except funny business !!! 

 
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November 10, 2005, 9:02 pm PST

11/10 Infidelity Aftermath

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You could follow him to the "store" or like the other post said, call the number and see who answers. If he's intentionally doing odd things to get a rise out of you then he doesn't have your best interest at heart, it's a very passive/aggressive thing to do.  My ex husband use to get off work at 11 pm but not get home until 2 or 3 am, his excuse was always that he was talking to a male buddy of his. Come to find out, he was with the buddy but not just talking, if you get my meaning. He cheated with both men and women during our marriage. When I divorced him I felt like a million bucks, he was and is a loser! So, if you have doubts about your man do a little investigating yourself, unfortunately you'll probably find exactly what your worried about. Be safe and stay strong!
It's not going to be easy to leave him no matter how indisputible the evidence is. Divorce is never a fun thing, so if you're holding out in hopes you'll find the big moment where you know for sure and walking out the door will be a breeze, it'll never come. Save yourself some dignity and leave him rather than sit around wallowing in paranoia and eroding your self esteem. you deserve a man who appreciates you!
 

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November 10, 2005, 9:02 pm PST

Excuses...

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You could follow him to the "store" or like the other post said, call the number and see who answers. If he's intentionally doing odd things to get a rise out of you then he doesn't have your best interest at heart, it's a very passive/aggressive thing to do.  My ex husband use to get off work at 11 pm but not get home until 2 or 3 am, his excuse was always that he was talking to a male buddy of his. Come to find out, he was with the buddy but not just talking, if you get my meaning. He cheated with both men and women during our marriage. When I divorced him I felt like a million bucks, he was and is a loser! So, if you have doubts about your man do a little investigating yourself, unfortunately you'll probably find exactly what your worried about. Be safe and stay strong!
My former husband did the same thing. Our six year son once confronted his dad as to why he didn't come home @ night after his 11pm shift. My husband had the audacity to tell him that it was because it was too dark. To which, the six year old responsded: Why don't you use the lights on your truck! I don't know who my husband thought he was fooling, but it certainly wasn't our six year old. And, in case, anyone is wondering, I didn't stay with the fool.
 


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