Quote From: windy66hello...i have just joined the message boards and this is my first post. i'm currently in a relationship with a man i love deeply...going on almost 2 years. we are talking seriously about getting married in another year or two. here is my problem....he has 2 young kids, 6 and 9. He has them more than 50% of the time. They have a lot of emotional issues and are both seeing a therapist. I am so fearful of taking all of this on and regretting it. I have been divorced twice already and have 2 kids of my own, ages 8 and 14. His kids and my kids don't really get along that well. I'm so afraid to take on too much and end up getting divorced again. I want to resolve this before the "engagement" happens. I would love to hear advice from anyone on how to deal with this. thanks.
I feel for you! I understand what it is to love someone but to have problems like that. You should all go into family therapy and go from there.
Good luck and Best wishes my thoughts are with you.
