This show should be an object lesson for the Dr Phil-ism - Never invest more in a relationship than you are prepared to lose.
It is difficult to reconcile all of the "phil-isms". He has also said that each partner in a relationship has to give 100% , which I take to mean give without reserve or caution....then he says, never invest more in a relationship than you are prepared to lose.
If we are carefully weighing our contribution, how can we give 100%?
