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November 15, 2005, 10:22 am PST
I used to be "shy"...
Quote From: gagirl277This seemed like the best message board to come to for help. I'm 19 and I am going to college. Most of my life I hid in a corner and remained quiet. Now it's gotten to the point where I'm sick of being the passive-aggressive 'shy-girl'. How do I change this? However, I bombed out when I tried to answer that same question for Feng. All I can say is it's a mind-set that is tough to get out of. Mine was an interpretation by others from what they saw, it was not the real me. However, when I accepted the judgement of others, it became the way I described myself for years, so therefore, I became shy. Sounds complicated doesn't it? Sometimes we make things complicated for ourselves. I used SELF MATTERS to find the real me under all of the labels and faulty self talk, maybe it could help you too?
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