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December 6, 2005, 3:49 am PST

I can relate

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hi mat, i totally understand how you feel, i was bullied at highschool, i ended up leaving because i couildnt put up with it naymore, i am more depressed now then when i was before, because i now get bullied by my parents, i was bullied because of my weight, everyday i have to put up with my parents telling me im fat, overweight, i play sport, they tell me im goingto struggle because im 2 fat. 

it hurts and upsets me, i never thought id hear my parents critise me because of my looks. 

i hope it all goes well for you. 

  

Kia ora 

I am 17 and in a similar boat, I was bullied in school aswell, People are attracted to confident people in friendships and in relationships but when youve been bullied it's hard to be confident, the only relationships ive formed after being bullied at highschool are toxic ones, it's put me off people but then you feel lonely, I wish schools had a zero tolerance for bullying it's not exceptable in the work place why is it exceptable in an enviroment that you have to be in 5 days a week, an enviroment that you can't leave, Pain is isolation and my mum told me pain is something were suppose to grow strong from, I'm not grown yet I really feel for you aye.  Kia Kaha, Be Strong Kia ora 

 
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November 20, 2006, 3:47 pm PST

Any suggestions?

Quote From: drphilroxx

hi mat, i totally understand how you feel, i was bullied at highschool, i ended up leaving because i couildnt put up with it naymore, i am more depressed now then when i was before, because i now get bullied by my parents, i was bullied because of my weight, everyday i have to put up with my parents telling me im fat, overweight, i play sport, they tell me im goingto struggle because im 2 fat. 

it hurts and upsets me, i never thought id hear my parents critise me because of my looks. 

i hope it all goes well for you. 

  

Same here, my parents always have sad negative things about me like you can’t do anything, you are not smart, look at other people they always get high marks and so on. They are still the same way. Now, I have low self-esteem, low confidence, no friends, and I am kind of dumb. I am trying hard to improve my self-esteem, but the improvement is very slow. It has always affected my grades. When I feel happy and confident, my grades go up and I feel happy that I can change myself, but that confidence does not stay there forever. It fluctuates. I don’t know how to keep my confidence high and be happy. I feel like am feeling the sadness which I really don't deserve.

 


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