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July 23, 2005, 4:39 pm PDT

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My name is Amanda I was born In November 1977, for some reason my parents couldn't keep me so they put me up for adoption when I was 6 months old I was adopted my parents now are wonderful growing up I put them through alot but now that I am married and have children i see that it was hard. I did look for them but since the year that I was born and the state I have to go through the Michigan court to locate them like i said i started then I started back up again so one day soon I will have the chance to find them.

I always wonder if they are still alive and If they think about me, I thank god that they put me up so I could have a wonderful life but I still wonder.

Just wanted to share my story because I know that there are other people out there like me.

Amanda

hey amanda. my name is jenna and i wasn't adopted, but my half-brother was. my mom always told us that she had a baby before she was married and gave him up for adoption, but she didn't know where he was or how to find him. turns out his adoptive parents always let him know he was adopted, so when he got older, he wanted to find my mom. (also his real mom) anyway, when he was 19 he found us and we have been in touch with eachother ever since. that is a happy ending and i thought i would share it just so others could be encouraged if they are having a difficult time finding their birth parents. well, that's all i wanted to say. i'm sure they think about you every day if they are still alive.

Jenna

 

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July 24, 2005, 3:38 pm PDT

Here's some information for you Amanda....

My name is Amanda I was born In November 1977, for some reason my parents couldn't keep me so they put me up for adoption when I was 6 months old I was adopted my parents now are wonderful growing up I put them through alot but now that I am married and have children i see that it was hard. I did look for them but since the year that I was born and the state I have to go through the Michigan court to locate them like i said i started then I started back up again so one day soon I will have the chance to find them.

I always wonder if they are still alive and If they think about me, I thank god that they put me up so I could have a wonderful life but I still wonder.

Just wanted to share my story because I know that there are other people out there like me.

Amanda

I have been a search angel for adoption related searches for over 18 years and thought you might like this information to assist you in your search. 

Hugs to you and yours!

Cheryl

MICHIGAN

 

Obtaining Non-Identifying Information: Adopted adults, direct descendants of a deceased adopted adult, adoptive parents, birth parents, and birth siblings may obtain non-identifying information.


Obtaining Identifying Information: Adopted adults can receive information through the State registry on the birth parents and birth siblings. Birth parents and birth siblings can receive the adopted adult's information, if the adopted adult provided written consent through the agency that completed the adoption and the court that finalized the adoption.


Using a Confidential Intermediary: Confidential intermediaries are provided through the court for adopted adults, birth parents, birth grandparents, birth siblings, adoptive parents of a minor adoptee, and descendants of a deceased adopted adult.


Using the Adoption Registry: If parental rights were terminated prior to May 28, 1945, or after September 12, 1980, and there is no parental statement of denial found in the registry, the adopted adult can receive information on the birth parents and Birth Siblings. If parental rights were terminated after May 28, 1945, but before September 12, 1980, the information will be released if the birth parents or birth siblings have filed consent through the registry.


Contact:
Michigan Family Independence Agency
Adoption Services Division
PO Box 30037
Lansing, MI 48909
(517) 373-3513


Obtaining an Original Birth Certificate: If parental rights were terminated prior to May 28, 1945, or after September 12, 1980, an adopted adult may receive a copy of the original birth certificate if there is no denial statement on file. If parental rights were terminated between May 28, 1945 and September 12, 1980, an adopted adult must petition the court in which the adoption was finalized.


Contact: An adopted adult's adoption record is usually held in the Family Division of Circuit Court (formerly the probate court) closest to the adoptive parents. The court should be able to provide the name of the agency that handled the adoption. Adopted adults may contact the Department of Community Health, Customer Services Section, 3423 North Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., PO Box 30195, Lansing, MI, 48909 to request the name of the court that finalized the adoption.

 

 
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March 20, 2007, 6:34 pm PDT

We are one in the same

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My name is Amanda I was born In November 1977, for some reason my parents couldn't keep me so they put me up for adoption when I was 6 months old I was adopted my parents now are wonderful growing up I put them through alot but now that I am married and have children i see that it was hard. I did look for them but since the year that I was born and the state I have to go through the Michigan court to locate them like i said i started then I started back up again so one day soon I will have the chance to find them.

 

I always wonder if they are still alive and If they think about me, I thank god that they put me up so I could have a wonderful life but I still wonder.

 

Just wanted to share my story because I know that there are other people out there like me.

 

Amanda

Hello Amanda,

My name is Virginia I was born in March 1973 in Michigan were I currently still reside, reading your story sounds so much like myself.  I am not looking for the biological family due to heartache or turmoil in my childhood - I am looking for them because I would like to see where and whom I came from.  I was very lucky to have the parents (adoptive) that I had. I was the youngest and my siblings were 25yrs older than I. I am married and have children also - I even thought of adoption with my 2nd child because I had children @ a young age. I kept my child - my adoptive mother was my backbone in all situations...now both adoptive parents are deceased.  Michigan seems like the hardest state to find any information on finding your birth parents.  Everyone tells me you can find anything on the internet...I beg to differ. I didn't learn of being adopted until I was 26 and my last parent had passed away and she had all the information. So if you have any suggests, please advise

 

Virginia

 

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September 22, 2008, 3:38 pm PDT

Searching For Birth Parents

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My name is Amanda I was born In November 1977, for some reason my parents couldn't keep me so they put me up for adoption when I was 6 months old I was adopted my parents now are wonderful growing up I put them through alot but now that I am married and have children i see that it was hard. I did look for them but since the year that I was born and the state I have to go through the Michigan court to locate them like i said i started then I started back up again so one day soon I will have the chance to find them.

 

I always wonder if they are still alive and If they think about me, I thank god that they put me up so I could have a wonderful life but I still wonder.

 

Just wanted to share my story because I know that there are other people out there like me.

 

Amanda

Hi Amanda,

 

My name is Carol and I am a birthmom.  I have been happily reunited with my son for 12 wonderful years.  There has not been a time in his life that I didn't think of him.  Birthdays were especially hard for me.  You see I had my son for 1 1/2 years before I had to surrender him to adoption because I had no one to help me, familial or financially.  What I was making was not enough to sustain the both of us.  On his birthday I would find a place inside of myself and stay there with all my memories and the love I continously felt for him.  My son was born in 1970 in what was called the baby scoop era.  Thousands and thousands of us moms lost our babies through coersion.

Believe me your mom thought of you often.

 


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