Quote From: windy66how long have you been dating this guy?
there is something wrong with this picture. and if i were you i would tread very carefully in this relationship. if he is talking about getting married to you why hasn't he at least invited you to spend A LITTLE time with his son. it seems like maybe the 5 year old is running the show. your boyfriend might feel 'guilty' if his son doesn't get 100% of his attention. that is sending the WRONG message to that little boy, and it's not fair to you either.
i would have a serious talk with your boyfriend. even if the three of you spend a little time (a couple of hours per week) together....he will see that it's not such a big deal and the little boy will get used to you in time. good luck.
First of all think about this seriously if he does not want you to be around his son, WHAT IS HE SAYING ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU TO OTHER PEOPLE?. It is not fair to not inclued ou in his time with his son, because if you are getting married will you not be in the picture more than just there for the weekend?. I F HE THINKS SO LITTLE OF YOUR FEELING THAN THINK ABOUT HOW MUCH DOES HE LOVE YOU? IF HE IS WILLING TO HURT YOU LIKE THIS , I THINK YOU SHOULD TELL HIM IF THIS IS THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT ME MEETING YPUR SON THAN I THINK WE NEED TIME APART TO SEE IF THIS IS GOING TO WORK BECAUSE I CAN NOT LIVE WITH THE FACT THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO LEAVE ME OUT OF PART OF YOUR LIFE WHEN I WANT TO BE THERE FOR YOU ALLWAYS.
