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Quote From: danamoulde

 My son has a son who is a 1 and half and a daughter who is we guess is about 3 weeeks old. See the mother took off out of state with my grandson about six months ago and she was pregnant with the little girl at the time. CWS had been all over her for not takeing care of her 2 year old and my grandson. I raised my grandson for 7 months of his life and her and my son had gotten into some arguments starting in the begining of there so called relationship and she had him beat up and she tryied to run him over with her car .In selfdefence he hit the back glass on the car and to his horror the 2 year old was in the car. The child wasn't hurt bad bad Thank God he had a few scratches on his head. But of course she yelled child abuse and spouse abuse. He was locked up for child abuse and false imprisonment. He got 5 years probation and 5 months in jail. Now he has felony charge hanging over him.She told me later she just wanted to punish him for 2 weeks and things go back to normal. During this time I still have my grandson . She wasn't supose to even have her 2 year old per CWS . They said she wasn't taken care of him. To make a long story short  they tried to make it work again and moved in with my aunt free rent free food. No kids to take care of. All she wanted to do is live off the goverment and my son wasn't raised that way. So they got into a big fight and she started to hit herself clawing her own face. And then started hitting my son he didn't know what she was up to . She took off down the road to the main hwy and he went after her to make sure she didn't hurt the baby she was pregnant with mean while she abandond my grandson at the house with my aunt.She started to kick my son claw him infront of a pizza place he drawed his knee up to protect himself and they said he kneed her .The police were called and no charges were filed. she went to the hospital that night and at the same time I came and got my grandbaby. The next thing I know her mother called and said defax wants them to come get the baby.Never once did her mother help with him or call about him. The next thing we know her mother has tempary custody of him. We were not notifyed of this defax wouldn't talk to me. They even demed her house unfit to raise chidren in.I have to say her house was a very nasty place.I was afaid to sit down any where for fear of catching somthing.They never looked at my home it was anew home.Then she told me defax said the only way to keep the boys was to move out of state. They were going to take the unborn baby to. She promised me I could see my grandkids anytime.gulable me belived her.I found out a week ago she sold my granddaughter without letting my son or me know she was even born. He did not want this to happen at all. I belive his rights were abused becase he wasnt there to say what he wanted.Now I here that my grandson is so fat that he can't walk . I had him doing all that when she took him she is the sorriest and lazziest mother I have ever seen.Please tell me what kind of rights my son and I have I want to get him before she kills him.We also want the little girl to .She said once that the only way to hurt my son was to torement me she new that would get to him the best.How can I get both of these kids back in our family. My son wants nothing more than to be apart of his kids lifes. PLEASE HELP US SAVE THEASE KIDS. D.MOULDER