Quote From: mikao2603Dear Kaylee,
You are not intruding at all. Why would I go on these boards if I wasn't prepared to answer a message? So don't worry about that.
As far as your boyfriend is concerned: GET REAL GIRL!!! Please explain to me how you can love a guy that abuses you mentally, verbally and physically, and takes you for granted, as I am too stupid to understand that.
Why do you keep up with someone that treats you like dirt? How do you think about yourself? Don't you think that you deserve WAY BETTER than this?
I surely don't want to put words in your mouth, but I have a strong feeling that you have a very low self esteem otherwise you would not accept this situation.
To answer your exact question as to what I would do in that situation: I would not have dated that person in the first place. If I ever get to date a woman that treats me like you describe here, I kick her ass to the curb. I would never ever accept such a behaviour because i'm too good for that. And that has nothing to do with arrogance, it is simply my idea that I deserve better than to be treated like shit. (sorry for the expression).
The same counts for you: you deserve better than you're getting now. Look for a guy that feels the luckiest guy in the universe that he has you for his girlfriend. You deserve no less than that.
Jo
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTION I KNOW YOU ARE RIGHT I JUST WANTED TO HEAR IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE SOMETIMES THAT HELPS YOU KNOW. I KNOW YOU MUST THINK THAT I AM STUPID FOR EVEN ASKING IF THE ANSWER IS SO OVIOUS I HAVE JUST BEEN WITH HIM FOR FIVE YEARS AND I THINK MORE THAN ANYTHING I JUST GOT USED TO IT AND IT SEEMED EASIER THAN MOVEING ON BUT I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT I CANT EVEN TALK TO HIM AND COMMUNICATION IS SUCH A VITAL THING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU DONT HAVE THAT THEN YOU SHOULDNT WASTE TIME WITH IT SO SERIOSLY THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GREAT IT IS TO HAVE SOMEONE TO TALK TO ABOUT STUFF I HOPE THAT YOU KEEP IN TOUCH EVEN IF WE DONT HAVE PROBLEMS WE CAN STILL TALK THANK YOU!
KAYLEE
OH AND BY THE WAY YOU WERE RIGHT I DO HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM I KNOW I HAVE NO REASON TO I'M A PERFECLY NICE PERSON AND I DONT THINK I LOOK ALL THAT BAD BUT I GUESS WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE TELLING YOU OTHER WISE ALL THE TIME YOU START TO BELIEVE IT!SO PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH I LOVE TALKING TO YOU
