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August 4, 2005, 1:49 am PDT

Body Image & Sex Appeal

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THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTION I KNOW YOU ARE RIGHT I JUST WANTED TO HEAR IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE SOMETIMES THAT HELPS YOU KNOW. I KNOW YOU MUST THINK THAT I AM STUPID FOR EVEN ASKING IF THE ANSWER IS SO OVIOUS I HAVE JUST BEEN WITH HIM FOR FIVE YEARS AND I THINK MORE THAN ANYTHING I JUST GOT USED TO IT AND IT SEEMED EASIER THAN MOVEING ON BUT I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT I CANT EVEN TALK TO HIM AND COMMUNICATION IS SUCH A VITAL THING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU DONT HAVE THAT THEN YOU SHOULDNT WASTE TIME  WITH IT SO SERIOSLY THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GREAT IT IS TO HAVE SOMEONE TO TALK TO ABOUT STUFF I HOPE THAT YOU KEEP IN TOUCH EVEN IF WE DONT HAVE PROBLEMS WE CAN STILL TALK THANK YOU!

                                                                                     KAYLEE

OH AND BY THE WAY YOU WERE RIGHT I DO HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM I KNOW I HAVE NO REASON TO I'M A PERFECLY NICE PERSON AND I DONT THINK I LOOK ALL THAT BAD BUT I GUESS WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE TELLING YOU OTHER WISE ALL THE TIME YOU START TO BELIEVE IT!SO PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH I LOVE TALKING TO YOU

You are right, if you're told that you're worthless all the time, you start to believe it. All the more reason why you should dump this guy. Communications is key in a relationship. If you don't have that, what else is left?

 

Sure, i'd love to stay in touch with you. Maybe we can exchange e-mail addresses (if you like).

 

Jo

 
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September 5, 2005, 11:59 pm PDT

Body Image & Sex Appeal

Quote From: kaylee1985

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTION I KNOW YOU ARE RIGHT I JUST WANTED TO HEAR IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE SOMETIMES THAT HELPS YOU KNOW. I KNOW YOU MUST THINK THAT I AM STUPID FOR EVEN ASKING IF THE ANSWER IS SO OVIOUS I HAVE JUST BEEN WITH HIM FOR FIVE YEARS AND I THINK MORE THAN ANYTHING I JUST GOT USED TO IT AND IT SEEMED EASIER THAN MOVEING ON BUT I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT I CANT EVEN TALK TO HIM AND COMMUNICATION IS SUCH A VITAL THING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU DONT HAVE THAT THEN YOU SHOULDNT WASTE TIME  WITH IT SO SERIOSLY THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GREAT IT IS TO HAVE SOMEONE TO TALK TO ABOUT STUFF I HOPE THAT YOU KEEP IN TOUCH EVEN IF WE DONT HAVE PROBLEMS WE CAN STILL TALK THANK YOU!

                                                                                     KAYLEE

OH AND BY THE WAY YOU WERE RIGHT I DO HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM I KNOW I HAVE NO REASON TO I'M A PERFECLY NICE PERSON AND I DONT THINK I LOOK ALL THAT BAD BUT I GUESS WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE TELLING YOU OTHER WISE ALL THE TIME YOU START TO BELIEVE IT!SO PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH I LOVE TALKING TO YOU

Kaylee,you gotta get out of that relationship.My 1st husband was mentally abusive,had the guts to leave him (I'm from another country,so it was hard),then by my luck,I started to date a guy,who did not only got mentally abusive but also physicaly.I stayed with him,because we have a child together.But at one point I had enough.I did not wanted my son to grow up,thinking it's normal how is dad treats women.It was soooo freaking hard to leave.No family here,not many close friends,not much money,BUT I made it,I left.HE went nuts,but that's another story :-) .A couple of years later I met a wonderful man,who loves me,for me. 

Please do get out.Take care of yourself first.If you already get treated the way you do now,you don't know where this can end up. 

  

  

 
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November 30, 2005, 9:37 pm PST

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Quote From: kaylee1985

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ANSWERING MY QUESTION I KNOW YOU ARE RIGHT I JUST WANTED TO HEAR IT FROM SOMEONE ELSE SOMETIMES THAT HELPS YOU KNOW. I KNOW YOU MUST THINK THAT I AM STUPID FOR EVEN ASKING IF THE ANSWER IS SO OVIOUS I HAVE JUST BEEN WITH HIM FOR FIVE YEARS AND I THINK MORE THAN ANYTHING I JUST GOT USED TO IT AND IT SEEMED EASIER THAN MOVEING ON BUT I THINK YOU ARE RIGHT I CANT EVEN TALK TO HIM AND COMMUNICATION IS SUCH A VITAL THING IN A RELATIONSHIP AND IF YOU DONT HAVE THAT THEN YOU SHOULDNT WASTE TIME  WITH IT SO SERIOSLY THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GREAT IT IS TO HAVE SOMEONE TO TALK TO ABOUT STUFF I HOPE THAT YOU KEEP IN TOUCH EVEN IF WE DONT HAVE PROBLEMS WE CAN STILL TALK THANK YOU!

                                                                                     KAYLEE

OH AND BY THE WAY YOU WERE RIGHT I DO HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM I KNOW I HAVE NO REASON TO I'M A PERFECLY NICE PERSON AND I DONT THINK I LOOK ALL THAT BAD BUT I GUESS WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE TELLING YOU OTHER WISE ALL THE TIME YOU START TO BELIEVE IT!SO PLEASE KEEP IN TOUCH I LOVE TALKING TO YOU

2 years ago I left a relationship at 3am, leaving a guy that was like yours.  the answer to ur quetion is u should leave him.  Yes, it will be hard.  Yes, U will be sad for a while, but yes, u will see that u will find out more who u are.  you will get stronger, and you will find someone who will treat u like are a queen.  You are young, inteligent, and probably r afraid being alone/leaving him.  If u do, get a family memeber/policeman to help you get your stuff.  check your state laws on stalking and anyting else u might need. 

  

erin  27/va 

 


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