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   I'm 20, i have a one year old son. I was thinking about having another i want them to be close in age. While my husband thinks that its too soon. See my son was born 7 weeks early i almost lost him.. The doctors told me that if i do have another one it might come early to. That scares me because i almost lost my son. i have has one miscarriage since he was born but it was in my tubes there was nothing that i could do to help it.  I just want one more then I'm done i have 8 brothers and sisters 9 including me. I don't want a big family. Where me and my husband disagree is that he only wants one and no more i told him it was my choice not his. Which is wrong to say i know . But how soon is too soon? What should i do just live with the one i have and never have another baby.  I realized the other day when my son asked me mom baby please as he was touching my tummy.. I think that my son would enjoy having a brother or sister to play with.. HOW do i change my husbands mind on having another baby? Anyone have any advice for me let me know please