Quote From: airose05My mom called CYS and they are cheeking the other children, my 2 step sisters, that are living with him now. They were divorsed during the time so there was nobody to 'kick to the curb' but if she could she would!!!!
You say they are sick, but how? What happened to them to make or get them to do this?
?I truely want an answer that pulls all the puzzel pieces together!!!?
Hey Hon...just wanted to say how brave you are to get this out into the open. It's so wonderful that your mom is supporting you. Keep the communication with her open.
My father molested me from ages 8-11 (I'm old now, 36! LOL) He also molested my little sister from age 3, and a few of my friends as well.
I always wanted to understand why...so I went into Forensic Psychology. I guess I wanted a logical reason for me to know that it wasn't my fault. Yes, I learned a lot of excuses...he was bipolar (manic/depressive), he was an alcoholic, he had been physically, emotionally, and sexually abused as a child. He finally committed suicide when I was 22 (he didn't want to go to prison for continuing to molest my sister, so he punked out)
Anyway, dear, there are no reasons why molesters do what they do...only excuses. You'll find out with time, therapy, age, and wisdom that no matter what excuses they give, nothing explains the pain that they cause.
Be kind to yourself...treat yourself like the princess you were born to be. He doesn't deserve the time you would spend trying to figure him out. Figure out yourself and what you want to do with yourself in the future.
