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December 26, 2005, 9:30 am PST
Should We Get Pregnant?
Quote From: ebrown1Reply to a message from another member. I posted a message to vent my feelings on this topic. Everything that I have dicussed I have discussed it with my husband sometimes it is helpful to get a someone elses opinion from the outside. I know what a blessing my children are. I have 4 children one is in the PDD spectrum I also have one global mental delays global sensory delays and he also has a language disabilty and he is asymetrical on one side of his body I run in and out of the city to bring them to doctors appointments which is a hour away from my house. Then I have to juggle two other children and my husband is a chef and he is never home to help me I have Three IEPS to juggle for school to make sure my children are getting the services needed for them to suceed. I know more than anyone how much deciation it takes and what a blessing children are I have been very blessed with the four that I have and I love them to death. I was just looking for someone else's opinion if it sounds crazy to go through proceedures when already have 4 to have the 5th. Hello, I saw your first message on here and wanted to reply but couldnt find it again. I feel so much the same as you. I do have kids but I so understand that burning to have another child. It just fulfills me so much. No one who doesnt feel that way could ever understand it. I had my tubes tied, too, but had invitro later. Invitro turned out to be cheaper , it was about four to five thousand dollars. The medications are a big part of the expense, if you have prescription coverage it makes a huge difference. Now I have four year old twin girls, and I adore them so much! I do still have that burning, but now that I am older it is fading more. There is just nothing in this world like being pregnant and having a new baby. It is the only time in my life that I have ever been truly happy, and my kids are my whole life. Without them, I truly would be at a loss as to what would fulfill me at all. I have not encountered anything else in my lifetime that takes tiny lil me and makes me truly matter. I worry that I'm somehow just a sick twisted person, but it just keeps coming back to the fact that I just adore my children. Feel free to email me if you want.
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