Quote From: keacrnAnybody out there that has something to say, please do so.
After 5 years of marriage, I am starting to feel uneasy about my wife's inability to pay off her past debt. I would like to mention that I did not find out about it after I was already into the marriage, and also there is the fact that she gets extremely angry if I inquire.
I came to find about all of this until collectors started calling, at first I just offered help, but only to have her hide her finances and always start a fight. Then there was another attempt by me putting her on one of my credit cards, short story, I cancelled her after it was up to $5000 and no signs of her paying part of it, much less reducing her own. Collectors kept calling.
Funny twist is that we both have good solid jobs. My finances are in order and I am able to save money while at the same time paying off all bills including mortgage and rent. Yes, living in 2 places. On the other hand, she does not want to ever tell me about her paycheck, or what she does with her money.
Fortunately and for now, I am not so worry about needing money. I am courious about the reason and the destination of her earnings; certainly they are not coming to my house. On top of this, she still refuses to show her credit card statements, while I keep joggling with collectors looking for her. I am a little concerned this is going to hurt me.
On all other aspects, she acts like the most caring person as long as I dont inquire about finances. Is there any way I can go about this?
My Husband also gets up set. This is so wrong, what else is being hidden? You better start searching to see what is going on. When someone really Loves you, they would not do anything to hurt you. The reason the she gets angry is because she knows that she is wrong.
