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November 24, 2005, 11:22 am PST
11/22 "Yours, Mine & Ours”
Quote From: kckremerThe sad story of the second family on this show was a joke! What kind of soft society are we living in that we feel sorry for a family of 8 people living in a 1300 sq ft house WITH a basement and (is this right???) 2 1/2 baths?????? I grew up in a family of 8 (not blended, but still 2 adults & 6 kids with very different personalities) in a 4 bedroom, ONE bathroom farmhouse, with NO basement! We had no garage or sunroom to convert / use as a bedroom, and two of the four bedrooms were "upstairs" with no heating or a/c, so were really only "functional" maybe six to eight months a year. So 3 or 4 months a year, it was too cold or too hot to sleep "upstairs" so we made do with a couch or floor, or wherever the temperature was bearable. I enjoy watching Dr. Phil and think he has alot of good advise. One piece in particular is to GET REAL! Anyone who feels 8 people living in a 1300 sq ft home, with a basement and a sunroom needs to visit the farming communities, or maybe the inner city, and see what "real" is to some people! And by the way, 5 of those 6 kids are my siblings, and in spite of our very different personalities, I love them dearly. They are all coming to my house for Thanksgiving, and I welcome them with open arms. It's not what you have, but what you make of it. That's true, but these kids did not grow up this way. I get your point but think of this from the point of view of the kids whose parents only recently married. They were used to living with 2 siblings and a parent, and all of a sudden, in the same space, there are 4 new people they have no history with, and they have to give up all of this privacy, space and time to these new people -- and then expected to all get along as a family. Especially since a lot of these kids are teenagers, I think that is a lot to ask. To adjust to a new stepfamily, and give up the lifestyle you were used to all at the same time, at age 15.
More room isn't the ultimate solution to this family's problems, that's true, but I do think it will help.
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