Replies to 'Body Image & Sex Appeal'

 I don't understand why some men think anything other than a tight vagina isn't good. Perhaps it's him that can't quite measure up. Men who think a tight vagina is what they want are probably the same guys who think large breasts are a way to measure a woman's sexiness. But then, as I always say, some men think that sex is like NASCAR racing, the bigger the engine the sooner you cross the finish line.
Let's be honest here, just because you've had four babies doesn't take away from your sexiness, your intelligence, your warmth, love, creativity. Actually, having children enhances a woman. (When my ex was pregnant, she became sexier to me.) You are more than a vagina or breasts. You are a person with wonderful qualities, and it's a fool who doesn't see that.
And if he still insists that you do the kegel exercises, tell him that he doesn't measure up to you. In fact, tell him that when he's inside you hardly know he's there. I have to wonder if your husband is the type of guy who thinks sex is putting his penis inside you and then pumping away. Wow, great action honey, just hope you enjoy it.
And is his focus just on his own orgasm? Another stupid husband only interested in getting off his rocks? Why is it that this husband doesn't understand that sex is a two-way street, giving and receiving to mutual satisfaction. Or, how about him just giving satisfaction without thought to himself or his desires? Wow, that would be a novel approach.
I wouldn't worry your vagina or how your husband feels about it. If he has a problem, tell him to have four children through his penis or butt and see how he feels after. I'm sure he'd have a different outlook on your vagina. Finally, as for telling his gal pal: I'd worry why he's confiding so much information in a gal pal. Doesn't sound like that's healthy for your relationship.

Honey, I think that he's sharing more then conversation  with the gal pal.........and the question I would ask her ...........who the hell do you think you are talking that kinda of stuff with my husband.......get your own damn man......leave mine alone and he can talk to me about my ass instead of you...................and if he continues to talk with gal pal............kick him to  the curve...............