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November 24, 2005, 3:13 pm PST

11/23 Schizophrenia

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My son suffers from this waking nightmare called schizophrenia and I'm so grateful whenever brave people step forward to help increase awareness and understanding. Mary, you are such a beautiful, intelligent girl, if you weren't married I would be playing match-making mother right this very minute. (ha ha) My dear son was making top grades in college when this awful disease struck. It doesn't run in our family, but then, as Dr. Phil said today the genetic link is not there in most cases. For ten years my son was unmedicated, psychotic, suicidal, cowering with fear and dread. [bWe need to change the law, so that family members can forcibly commit their loved ones for treatment.[/b Asking the adult schizophrenic to make wise decisions for himself is like asking someone with alzheimers to make such decisions. The organ that is sick is the one needed to make good decisions, so, unfortunately, the last thing someone who is paranoid will want to do is go voluntarily to the doctor -- his illness will cause him to fear that the doctor will "use him as a guinea pig" or "put monitoring devices in his head', etc. We must vote to allow parents to get help for our children, as it is now we have to wait for them to be "a danger to himself or others." Since most schizophrenics are as gentle and frightened as lambs, they go without treatment for years. I finally, going against every mother's instinct, called the police on my son one night, and fibbed that he had threatened suicide (he was highly psychotic at the time.) They took him to a psychiatric hospital, started him on Zyprexa and he has been doing wonderfully well ever since. He works full time, enjoys hobbies and friends, and since switching to Abilify, he is even back to his slender weight. [bSchizophrenia is not a rare disease.[/b It is far more common in the U.S. than muscular dystrophy, MS, AIDS, and many other diseases that we hear about all the time. It is the number one disabler of young people; yet when was the last time you saw a march or telethon for schizophrenia? Every year millions are collected for the March of Dimes, when will we start to address this devastated disease? It's been estimated that forty percent of our homeless have severe mental illness. Is this the way Americans treat our sick? Please continue to help raise awareness of this disease, Dr. Phil -- and thank you, for getting the ball rolling. To paraphrase one of my favorite Dr. Philisms "Let's step up to the plate and demand a cure for these people!"
 I was so impressed with you articulate posting. My son also "suffers from this waking nightmare called schizophrenia." I related to everything you said. I remember one night when I was desperate to get my son help, I called the Crisis Line. In my part of the country, if you want to have someone involuntarily committed, you need to call the Crisis Line, have someone assess the patient, then they send the sheriff to your home to take the patient to the hospital. The person who answered the phone was a college-age volunteer who had no idea about this procedure. She was in over her head. I asked for her supervisor and was very aware of the ticking clock, afraid my son would disappear into the night in the state he was in. The supervisor got on the line at the same time my son picked up the extension and started ranting wildly into the phone. We struggled to be heard for several minutes and the supervisor told me that she could not do an intake assessment if my son would not cooperate! I was dumbfounded! He was so obviously, wildly audibly psychotic, and she was not going to commit him because he would not cooperate with the psychiatric questionnaire! I applaud you for your quick thinking and your "fib." I would have done the same thing if it would have occurred to me.
 


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