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November 25, 2005, 8:38 am PST
Martial Arts
Quote From: sorayanc
I have to disagree with your problems with the step-son being in martial arts. I've never seen a child that become more violent because of matial arts training, and in fact, many who have developed that self-respect, and self-control to control their violent tendencies.
If you have concerns about step-son's behavior, then take it up with the Sifu, Master (the name varies by discipline), basically the head of the School or Dojo he is taking lessons from. They have run into this concern before, can let you know what they do to make sure it doesn't happen, and take the time to stress the lessons of not using martial arts for anything other then self-defense and the protection of those weaker then they are.
If the teacher does not show interest in you over this, then find him a new school, but do not take him out of the one thing that may actually channel his behavior in a more positive fashion, give him physical activity and provide a sense of accomplishment for him.
Martial Arts is a very good thing for all children. They should be learning, respect, self-discipline and self-control. I agree that if you have concerns regarding your step son's behavior, you should bring it up with his teacher, they are an excellent resource. My almost 5 year old recently started karate and I have seen a huge difference in his behavior in regard to listening, following directions and being respectful to others. He understands that the skills he learns are not to be used for violence. They are only to be used in the classroom, at home to practice (with his parents' permission) and only for self-defense if someone is trying to hurt him. I don't believe that martial arts will contribute to someone being violent. It gives them the confidence to deal with all the problems that life will throw at them. It also gives them the skills they need in order to attain their goals (in this case, the black belt). I would highly recommend martial arts to anyone.
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