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August 4, 2005, 8:53 pm PDT
08/04 Torn Between Two Lovers, Part 2
Quote From: redskyniteI'm am a very lucky woman. My husband has never cheated on me. However (John) my exhusband's first wife (Carol) left him for another man (Les) who was also married to a woman named Ellen. Carol divorced John and her lover (Les) divorced his wife (Ellen) on the same day. Several months later, John and Carol were married. Sixteen years later, Carol caught John cheating on her just as he had cheated on his previous wife 16 years ago. Carol and John have now divorced. As they say, what comes around, goes around.
John seems to have a hard time keeping a relationship together. After loosing Carol he married me in 1992 and we divorced in 1999. Neither one of us were seeing anyone, we just had problems. John has remarried and divorced twice since our divorce. Doesn't anyone stay married to one person anymore? Only the ones who take their marriage vows serious, truly loves, respects and honors their spouse, even through the tough times. There is absolutely no reason to cheat, if one is not happy in a marriage , then GET A DIVORCE! which in my opinion is nothing but a cop out for most people. Thank goodness there are some great men out there and I have one of them. Temptation is not a sin but to fall for it is. What a shame that people don't take marriage serious and to respect the one that they are suppose to love and honor and I feel sorry for those who don't respect themselves enough to step up and say "enough is enough". I know this is a reun, IWonder if these two people are still married? And if so? What have they done to keep this crap from happening again? I am blessed not to be in thier shoes for my hubby and I are happily married and we strive very hard to make our love and marriage last a life time which is very possible because that is what we want and believe in.
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