Quote From: missjane2To the 2 that were deceived..... WHY were you sleeping with these in the first place if they weren't the kind of person you wanted to have a baby with? Isn't that using them? Not that you should have had a baby right away.... but did you want a baby with someone else or do you just not want kids? Technically I don't think you should sleep with someone unless you love them. 
 
Secondly with the guy who got his wife pregnant at night.... He is kind of quite abit bigger than her.... I am just wondering how he didn't wake her up? She must have taken some pretty strong sleeping pills or something...... 
A relationship evolves and sometimes grows from holding hands and kissing to then having sex. I waited for sex with my s/o for 3 months after dating, I had sex for sex sake.not for a baby. I was not looking for a husband. I too was caught off guard and was well feeling the love. Sometimes our bodies tell us that sex will feel good, and it does and it is for pleasure not conception.
To assume someone is on sleeping pills and not just a sound sleeper, is a little judgemental. Maybe there were drinks involved, or maybe the husband is just not well endowed. Who knows, but he admitted that he thought he could get away with it which is clearly deceptive.
Peace and Love,
Michelle