Quote From: saemaeDaughter and granddaughter are entitled, selfish little monsters that never grew up. They seem to be forgetting something; this is NOT their property! They're acting like it's theirs and this mean old lady is stealing it from them! Did they work the land? Judging by the look of them, they wouldn't know how. "I was on welfare because of her!" No, you were on welfare because you have a warped sense of entitlement. Bottom line: this is NOT YOUR LAND! You have NO RIGHT to demand anything! If I were Grandma, I would leave every last bit of it to a land trust where your greed cannot touch it. You two are a couple of scheming, greedy (word I can't post) and if you got that land, that poor woman would end up on the streets. You aren't fooling anyone!
There are many, many worthy causes that people can benefit in their wills. There is no reason to leave an estate to your children beside natural love and affection. There is not obligation to do it at all. The daughter and grandaughter sound like they are worried that Grandma might spend her money on travel and pleasure (like she is entitled to do).
If there is no love and the mother/grandmother just gets anger and demands, I would recommend looking over the list of charities and selecting some to give to. Once there is no question about getting the estate, I expect that the daugther/grand daughter team would leave grandma alone to live her life.
